It is written in M A Y A N law, that If someone is Grieving, TRULY GRIEVING! I’m talking about the type that you look bad when it’s all done, that we must look at that person and walk towards them and LISTEN……
It doesn’t matter if this is a stranger or a “madman” we go and we listen. This as we know it is human law.
It’s called Liquid Listening, the griever is known as “lost in Liquid” their is no shame around this.
It is us that hasn’t yet integrated the grief shadow that embroiders this lack in our own constellation and it is US THAT CAN REWRITE THIS SAME CONSTELLATION so as we can dissolve the magnitude of grief within self, within our family, our community, our country and globe. So that all beings maybe free.
Due to the world modernising, The villages are being lost. When their is No village no one can turn liquid ( Tears in safety and for as long as needed ) Instead, they turn to stone ( Disease )
In Mayan Village and village and Tribes of just about all Indigenous Cultures, their would be women and men that DEVOTED, their LIVES, to LISTEN, to tears, sensitive MEN & WOMEN, they were the empaths, the emotional medicine beings, the professional weepers, to hear the situation, to look at the situation. When ever those lost in liquid would surface, the village would call the medicine beings and bring them to the liquid folk to hold space and initiate even more liquid ( tears )
When theirs no village no one can open up.
Modern world has also induced an inability to
1. Emotionally process
2. Have emotional understanding
3. Facilitate a space holding vs de validate the intensity so the being can feel better, move forward.
Heres where the ripple effect begins, because another problem lays within this.
Why, why is there a need to push forward, when the grief is present? We as current times, human beings, have the inability to cultivate maturity with emotional health. So why don’t we? Something to ponder.
If we fracture a foot bone and we phone our boss and say “ I cannot come to work this week, I’ve damaged my foot playing netball on the weekend” All is accepted. If we call our boss and say “I separated from my partner of 15 years on the weekend I need a week off” what would be the common response!
Both are vital & Significant healing processes. Yet only one we accept and invite?
Emotional body is possibly more detrimental to physical health than the physical body itself. So why is this infrastructure not sustained or developed in modern age?
Physical disease, is the manifestation of unprocessed and suppressed emotion. Emotion that build up so much in the astral ( emotional ) body that it has no more space to hold more, so it has no option but to pour that energy, into the physical body > this is when it manifests as a symbol, we do listen too, we are forced we have forced, this upon self. This, this is when we generally start to listen, finally, as we are conditioned this way. Only when the liver fails will we begin to stop and look at our anger, only when cancer is diagnosed will we stop and review our world, listen to the body, make lifestyle adjustments, allow only positivity environments and nurturing hearted beings in our life, for we understand the energy / nature of unconscious way of being / toxicity & then invite shifts to support our healing process.
Emotional healthcare is paramount. Today is an invitation to reflect on where we as an individual, a society, a government, are denying our emotional health and revisiting our boundaries NOW around this.
When theirs no village how can one open up?
Modern society and everyday homes and beings can’t afford to grieve. I don’t mean money, I’m stating BECAUSE THEIR IS NO VILLAGE.
Tears need to loosen.
TEARS NEED TO BE ENCOURAGED MORE.
To Look in our bloodlines, to enquire into our families and scan our neighbourhood, seek liquid listeners is absolutely a healthy mandate for healthy home and life long life. We can ask one another who is the best person, is anyone willing to take in this emotional totem role, celebrate this nominated family healer, family space holder, family medicine man or medicine women, create these roles, just as we do others, someone does the dishes, someone takes the garbage out, look and assign your liquid listeners, if you don’t have any, find one. The Australian Sage ( billakate.com ) has trained liquid listeners if you cannot find them around you. Use them.
I cannot express how much this will influence physical health in the long run, reduce, anxiety and depression, addictions, violence, divorce, suicide. I cannot find words to converse, How good you will feel, maybe not look so good after it, but you will Feel so good, at the core, so alive.
Grief and emotional expressing professing, unpacking, releasing, is liberating, it’s sacred, it’s so personal. It’s masculine, it’s feminine, and it brings us back to life.
Theirs so much work on this planet, for repair, that even if we could all become “healers” “liquid holders” there would still not be enough holders due to the volume of grief, trauma, wound that has been unprocessed in our lineages. It’s all handed down and down and down.
Are you moving through life without capturing the innate essence of life itself, of this experience?
Do you bypass or have grief? That you deny to “ make a living “ or “ keep the house going “
Is their a need to feel better ? That is alive in you in this now?
We don’t have to medicate expression.
When the tears roll we learn to just listen.
We don’t need to be a solution, like we often think, we don’t need to provide remedy, or help or change the circumstance, all we need to learn to do is listen.
THATS !!! Mayan law. “You cannot deny, or send someone away that’s weeping”
This is rehabilitation.
Sooner or later we all go through death. Be it past versions of self and needing to relearn and re Emerge as anew self, motherhood is a great example. Loosing a loved one is another. We don’t just grieve the one that has moved to the next life, we also grieve the being we once were, when they died we died, we are too reborn, we too have to re learn self, this is why everyone feels so lonely, we don’t even understand self let alone, what we need and want. In Grief.
Most of us suffering will validate, “I Can’t afford to break down” if I do I will be down for weeks months…………..I’ve been there, I know most of you would have too, so why are we in this situation.
We have lost our villages.
What happens if we deny this liquid time in our life?
If we don’t process it.
Where do we think that energy goes?
We have to be very naïve to think it just magically evaporates or it control alt deletes from the our life’s matrix.
Our children inherit it, energy, well it TRANSFERS, it’s not quantum, this is baseline curriculum, our physical bodies will inherit it, as disease.
We have to turn liquid.
Sadness ongoing, grief ongoing, all turns into stone, if we are not liquid anymore.
Stone is Disease.
We, in these times have a chance to listen, we also have an opportunity to really grieve.
Our First Nations, the Mayans, the Indians, the Lakota tribes, had to be on the run while grieving the massacres of their villages. Tribes, children. We have the time. Higher perspective
We can Untwist the body through liquid [tears].
We can untwist criminal behaviours, statistics, and we can untwist ourselves. Through the liquid [tears]
The Mayan shaman I was fortunate enough to study said once,
To grieve properly 50 or 1000 or 100 people are needed.
To one, not two, not 3 for the healing dozens and dozens are needed for one individual 😳
When theirs no village how can one open up.
Tears need to loosen.
TEARS NEED TO BE ENCOURAGED MORE
Grief is NOT sadness.
Can we have the Courage to be down. Can we have The Courage to be up?
We can not measure or sell on grief. Their is No solution to grief. Just like their is No solution to life, it has to happen. But we can learn to become liquid listeners and dilute the amount of suffering and awaken the emotional health care with kindness and time for one another.
Billa Kate | The Australian Sage @hercalmspace
billakate.com